The Problem With Having A Large Penis
It seems that virtually every man wants a large penis. After all perceived wisdom is that men will envy you and women will queue up to have immensely fulfilling sex with you. Unfortunately although other men will be envious the reality when it comes to getting and having sex is somewhat different.
"Wow, I've never seen one so big" she'll say when you unleash the beast but when it actually comes to the point of having penetrative sex she's more than likely to say "no thank you". Despite all the banter about women liking big cocks, time and again research shows that they don't. The majority of women like medium sized ones that are a little on the chunky side. Women who like large penises are in the minority.
The reason that women are put off large penises is because of the potential for pain. Even small penises are capable of hitting a woman's cervix on occasions and having your cervix bashed can be extremely painful. The longer the penis the more likely it is to happen. Large penises can also be wider than normal and this can cause an unpleasant stretching feeling around the entrance of the vagina for some women.
There are ways round these problems.
The first thing is to talk it through. If a woman likes you then you've got a good chance she'll at least give sex a try. Make sure you discuss what exactly is worrying her. The more uncertain a woman is the more tense she'll be which will make penetration even more difficult.
Take it slowly. Foreplay will allow a woman's vagina to expand allowing for more penetration by a large penis.
Take it gently especially on the first few occasions when you're getting used to each other's bodies. This will lessen the chances of bruising. Ending up bruised and swollen for a few days is a good way to ensure a woman says no to any further sex.
Make sure you use lots of lube. Choose a good quality one and don't be afraid to try a few different ones to find the one that's best suited to both of you.
Don't penetrate too deeply. This can be particularly difficult when you've got more length than can fit comfortably into the vagina. If you'd prefer to just concentrate on the pleasure side rather than worrying about the depth of your penetration then you can use a ring of soft rubber or vinyl usually called a "donut" or "pump seal" which is used for penis pumps. You slide it down towards the base of your shaft and this will limit the amount of length that can enter the vagina during intercourse.
Think about which positions to use during sex. You'll need to experiment to find out which positions are comfortable for you both. You'll probably want to avoid positions that allow for deep penetration as in the "doggy" style.
Another problem for a man with a large penis is finding a condom that will fit. You should try out the various brands with large and extra large fittings before you have sex. Some condoms are longer but not much wider than normal so you need one that's comfortable both in length and width. Too stretched and the condom can split during sex.